Couples working together to discover new possibilities. Let's Get the conversation started. Every day I get to choose my marriage. The truest form of love is the gift of free choice. As I wake up and choose my commitment to a lifetime of loving, I get the opportunity to hold my relationship in the freedom of love rather than the imprisonment of watching and waiting, afraid that he will break his commitment to me. The later produces a breeding ground of mistrust manipulation, and control, but living in my own commitment, focused on how I am showing up, taking account when I fall short, and choosing to go again, breeds love and respect. Loving is not about what I receive, but what I offer.